The process
Earnest money, explained
Earnest money is a deposit you include with your offer to show the seller you're serious. It's sometimes called a "good faith deposit." If your offer is accepted, the money is held by a neutral third party until closing.
How much is typical
Earnest money commonly runs about 1–3% of the purchase price, though it varies by market. In competitive markets, a larger deposit can make an offer stand out; in slower markets, a smaller one may be fine. Your agent can advise on what's customary locally.
Where the money goes
The deposit doesn't go to the seller directly. It's held in escrow — by a title company, brokerage, or attorney depending on the state — and at closing it's typically applied toward your down payment or closing costs. So in most cases it's not an extra cost, just money paid earlier.
When you get it back — and when you don't
This is where contingencies matter. If your contract includes financing, inspection, or appraisal contingencies and you back out for one of those covered reasons within the agreed timeframe, you generally get your earnest money back. If you walk away for a reason not protected by a contingency — or miss the contingency deadlines — you may forfeit the deposit to the seller. Read these terms carefully before signing.
See where this fits
Earnest money comes up at the offer stage — step 5 of the roadmap.
See the roadmapThis article is educational and general in nature. Specifics vary by lender, loan program, and location. Confirm details with a licensed professional.